Secrets to Feeling Younger at Any Age

April 23, 2017 5 Comments

Secrets to Feeling Younger at Any Age

I’ve felt incredibly old these last few months. Not because of my age, but my general well-being. I’ve felt extra tired, overworked, and this extraordinary guilt anytime I wanted to do something fun because there was either some responsibility I should be attending to, or I couldn’t justify spending the money because of some bill I should be paying.

I decided I couldn’t live this way. I can’t change how much work I have to do because once I commit to something, I must give it my all (or there will be other unhappiness). Nor could I change how much income I have flowing in. So, I woke up this morning with a goal to be mindful about feeling young.

  1. Spend one hour a day doing something just for you. Whether that hour is spent getting a manicure, reading, taking a bubble bath, cooking, being crafty, I will do something just for my enjoyment.
  2. Step away from the TV. While I love television shows and getting wrapped up into their storylines, watching TV is doing nothing for my brain or my waistline. When I get home from my day job, I am exhausted and want nothing more than to go watch TV. But, I’ve decided I could spend that time being productive.
  3. Sing! I was stuck in traffic for three hours with my husband yesterday; it took us that long to drive 50 miles (gotta love New York City). We were both getting frustrated and started snapping at each other. So, I plugged in my phone, and started blasting tunes we both love. We started singing together and suddenly the ride wasn’t so bad.
  4. Eat at home. People who eat at least five home-cooked meals a day are 47% more likely to live an extra decade¹.  I feel like I never have time to cook, but I know I can come up with something quick and much healthier than what I order if I just plan ahead.
  5. Self-acceptance. I’ve always struggled with my weight. It’s a vicious cycle, really; I feel depressed about my weight and don’t want to leave the house which turns into overeating. I realized if I accept who I am where I am, I will naturally make better choices. Anything worthwhile takes time. Listening to Hamlet, if we learn to weather the “slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,” we are sure to live a longer, happier life².
  6. Choose to Feel Younger. Don’t let yourself be controlled by three things: people, money, and past experiences¹. We can make the conscious choice to let go to actually gain control and feel younger.

Sources:

¹ Life Hacks by Keith Bradford

² Reader’s Digest, May 2017

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5 Responses

Donna DeRosa
Donna DeRosa

April 25, 2017

I love singing in the car. It really does help with traffic. All of your tips are great.

Sheon
Sheon

April 25, 2017

I feel worse when I do not exercise. I think getting enough sleep, eating a well-balanced diet and exercising can make a world of a difference. I love your suggestions especially the 1 hour for yourself.

angela
angela

April 24, 2017

I love your ideas. I’ve been taking time each day to take a short walk. I feel like I’m multi-tasking too. I’m getting fresh air, exercise, and “me” time.

Rolande Sumner
Rolande Sumner

April 23, 2017

I totally agree. Good article.

Cassie
Cassie

April 23, 2017

These are great suggestions! I LOVE singing with my husband – definitely helps to diffuse tense moments!! Something else I love to do to feel younger is take walks outside and breathe in the fresh air.

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